Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Adjustments period



Photos here were taken on a later part of 2005. Probably around September. We've just started the relationship. Getting to know each other, most of the time arguing about a lot of different things. But at the end of the day, we'll kiss and make up as if nothing happened. But deep in our hearts we know that those arguements and misunderstandings helped us both to be better persons individually and as partners.
At the start of a relationship, what we people normally do is just look at the positive sides of the person whom we believe we love the most. But if that feeling that we're claiming as true love isn't genuine at all, i'm pretty sure the spark will immediately disappear as soon as you discover the "not-so-good" side of your partner. Everyone of us has a good and a not so good side. We have to admit that. And no matter how hard you hide it, people around you will still see that as time goes by.

I'm thankful that it didn't happen to our relationship. We've passed to the stage wherein you'll only show your good traits and will exert so much effort just to avoid disappointing each other. That isn't bad after all. Now, we don't only treat each other as boyfried and girlfriend. We also consider ourselves as bestfriends. Another thing to be proud of, huh?! :-)

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